Agenda Sexologia Somática Tantrika no Rio de Janeiro RJ 10/02

Atendimentos com Sexologia Somática Tantrika
Sarau Erótico Consent em grupo com base no Consentimento Somático e Sexologia, Terapia Tantrika, jogos dinamicos em duplas, trios
Arte erótica com apresentações de poesia erótica, performance/dança, entre outros.
Dia 12/02 centro rio de janeiro as 19hs

Somatic Tantric Sexology Sessions
Consent Erotic Gathering in a group based on Somatic Consent and Sexology, Tantric Therapy, dynamic games in pairs and trios
Erotic art with presentations of erotic poetry, performance/dance, among others.
February 12th, downtown Rio de Janeiro at 7pm


What has the body learned about love?

Somatic sexology, eroticism, and relational awareness. The body learns before the mind.

In somatic sexology, we understand that:

👉 the body learns patterns of love, bonding, and desire even before language.

If we grow up associating love with:

possession, control, fear of loss

The body begins to confuse activation of the alert system with affective connection. Intensity is not intimacy.

Many relationships called “intense” activate:

anxiety, hypervigilance, emotional dependence. In the body, this manifests as:

chronic tension, confusion between arousal and threat.

difficulty relaxing in the presence of the other.

💡 True intimacy regulates the nervous system.

Jealousy is not a natural instinct. Jealousy is not born in the body—it is culturally conditioned.

Somatically, it arises when:

there is fear of abandonment, previous experiences of rupture, beliefs of affective scarcity

The body reacts with contraction, not opening.
Healthy love expands, it doesn’t shrink.

The overload of romantic love

When we place the affective-sexual relationship as the absolute center:

the body enters a state of constant expectation, frustration accumulates
desire becomes obligation
Somatic sexology proposes decentralizing the bond, so that love circulates in a network, not in a prison.

Eroticism is not pornography
Eroticism, from a somatic perspective, is:
vital energy, bodily sensitivity
capacity to feel pleasure in existence
Pornography is external stimulus.

Eroticism is internal presence.

An eroticized body is a living, sensitive, and creative body—not performative.

Intimacy is bodily security

Intimacy is not fusion.

It is the capacity to:
feel, name, express limits, desires, and discomforts.

When there is somatic intimacy:
the body relaxes, breathing deepens, desire flows without fear.

Without this, chemistry does not sustain the bond.
Desire is movement, not betrayal.
Desire is a spontaneous bodily response.

It does not choose a relational system.